Happy Birthday to Me

Today is my birthday, and as a dear friend of mine once stated, she and I are "Plenty-Nine" and holding.

I love the concept of agelessness. However, I have a great appreciation for the knowledge and wisdom that can only come with living each day of our lives to the fullest.

I have met some 15 year olds that have more wisdom than others that are 30. Just because you pass time on this planet does not mean that you are learning anything.


Today is my birthday and I will stay on the soapbox as long as I can.


Just kidding.


Actually, what I wanted to talk about today is birthday traditions. I used to get so excited about the family serenading me around a colorful birthday cake set all aglow with a plethora of candles, and of course, the presents.

What child did not love to admire the stack of presents brought over by friend and relatives. I remember thinking that the more you were liked (or loved) the more presents you received.

As a child, those were some of my best memories. No, not the presents.  The events.

Actually, when I think back, I cannot remember even one of the presents I received on any birthday.

But those memories!

Decorated back yard. Funny hats. Cardboard horns. Pin the tail on the donkey. Brightly colored plates and matching napkins. Homemade cake. Giant tubs of ice cream. Pancake breakfasts the morning after a sleep over.

I can even recall a particularly happy celebration. I was wearing white peddle pushers topped with a block printed triangle blouse and of course - the colorful foil and fringe hat. My mom had made the perfect banana cream cake. Back then, we never had store bought cakes and I am so glad of that fact. No one made a cake like my mom.

I still have a photo of that moment. The one just after blowing out the candles. I was so proud. My dimples emphasized my sheer joy. Again.. I don't remember the gifts, but I do remember the experiences and am very grateful for those cherished memories.

So, this year, when my family asked me what I wanted for my birthday I had one simple answer:

I want a memory.

I chocolate cake would not be a bad thing either!